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FORMATION FRIDAY – GOOD FRIDAY – APRIL 7, 2023

Formation Friday – Good Friday, April 7, 2023 (en español abajo)

Reflections on The Cross of San Damiano

By Patrick McNamara, OFM, Cap.

 

I look to the Cross, I gaze upon its figure,

I wait, I listen, I hope.

 

Will you speak, will you move, will I be moved.

 

Will you once again touch the heart of one who seeks.

Of one who questions, of one who seems so lost.

 

Will you embrace the soul, as you did that of Francis.

Will you take it to Yourself.

 

Will you give it peace, give it comfort, give it love

 

This soul waits, listens, prays for such grace.

This soul seeks the Love from the Lover.

 

It wavers. It stumbles. It falls.

 

Your gaze looks down, embraces all.

Takes all, Loves All. Your Grace heals, accepts.

 

Again you respond, Again you Love.

Again you speak to a searching and troubled heart. I turn.

I continue the journey. I continue in Hope.

I too have heard you Speak.

 

Read about the San Damiano Cross

https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/2020/05/08/the-san-damiano-crucifix/

Learn about the San Damiano Cross

https://secularfranciscansusa.org/wp-content/uploads/The-San-Damiano-Crucifix-8-page-explanation.pdf

 

 

Prayer Before the Crucifix (Of San Damiano)

Most High,
glorious God,
enlighten the darkness of my heart
and give me
true faith,
certain hope,
and perfect charity,
sense and knowledge,
Lord,
that I may carry out
Your holy and true command.

Franciscan Intellectual Tradition

 

 

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Reflexiones sobre la Cruz de San Damián

Por Patrick McNamara, OFM, Cap.

 

Miro a la Cruz, contemplo su figura,

Espero, escucho, espero.

 

Hablarás, te moverás, me conmoveré.

 

Volverás a tocar el corazón de quien busca

De quien cuestiona, de quien parece tan perdido.

 

Abrazarás el alma, como hiciste con la de Francisco.

Te lo llevarás a ti mismo

 

Le darás paz, consuelo, amor

 

Esta alma espera, escucha, ora por tal gracia.

Esta alma busca el Amor del Amante.

 

Vacila. Se tropieza. Se cae.

 

Tu mirada mira hacia abajo, lo abraza todo.

Toma todo, ama todo. Tu Gracia sana, acepta.

 

De nuevo respondes, De nuevo amas.

De nuevo le hablas a un corazón que busca y está atribulado. Volteo.

Continúo el viaje. Sigo en la Esperanza.

Yo también te he oído hablar.

 

Oración ante el crucifijo de San Damián

Sumo, glorioso Dios,
ilumina las tinieblas de mi corazón
y dame fe recta,
esperanza cierta
y caridad perfecta,
sentido y conocimiento, Señor,
para que cumpla tu santo y verdadero mandamiento.

 

http://franciscanos.org/esfa/orsd.html

 

Lea sobre el crucifijo de San Damián

http://franciscanos.org/enciclopedia/cruzsandamian.html

 

 
Diane F. Menditto, OFS
Vice Minister, National Fraternity, Secular Franciscan Order USA
Listen – Discern – Go Forth National Theme 2022-2025
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SHAPING THE FRANCISCAN FOOTPRINT – March 30 – April 5 2023

Shaping the Franciscan Footprint

Five Important Spiritual Thoughts from the Liturgy of the Word

…and follow up for the Secular Franciscan

March 30 – April 5

 1 — “Take and eat; this is my body.” Then he took a cup, gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you.” (Mt 26:26-27)

        The Catholic family lived next door to the Catholic rectory and the relationship between the pastor and the family was a very good one. The family had a four-year-old daughter who, as her father said, “mastered the art of talking very well” and was always inquisitive. One day the four-year-old came over to the rectory with a jar of St. Joseph’s children’s aspirin, gave it to the priest and said, “This is for Jesus because he is sick.” The priest asked, “How do you know that Jesus is sick?” The girl answered, “Daddy said so.”

        The priest could not figure that out, so he called the father at work who was very embarrassed about the whole thing and explained it to the priest. The day before at Sunday Mass he had a conversation with his daughter during Mass, and at the same time was trying to keep his daughter quiet. She pointed to the tabernacle, and said, “What is that?” “That is the place where Jesus lives,” the father said. The girl responded: “Can I ask him to come out and play?” “No,” he said, “I don’t think Jesus wants to come out and play today.” “You mean that Jesus doesn’t like me?” she said. “No,” the father replied, “Jesus just doesn’t want to play today.” The little girl replied, “Why doesn’t he, can I go ask him?” “No,” the father said, “You can’t go ask him.” “Why can’t I go ask him” the little girl wanted to know. And the conversation went on like this for a couple of minutes. Finally, quite exasperated, the father said, “Jesus is sick today, he doesn’t want to be disturbed.” Hence, she wanted to give Jesus the aspirins that her parents used to help her when she was sick.

        The doctrine of the Eucharist is difficult to explain to our younger people, and it is even more complicated than it at first seems. Without really knowing what she was doing, she was speaking what spiritual writers have called the “Jesus and me” theology.

        “Jesus and me” theology is easy theology. Applied to the understanding of the Eucharist, “Jesus and me” theology concentrates on the Eucharist as such. It is not a theology that is wrong; it is simply not enough. It becomes wrong when it does not move us to become what we should be, that is, good people interested in love of God and neighbor.

        The opposite of the “Jesus and me” theology is “Jesus and we.” That is, community is important. In terms of the Eucharist, the “Jesus and we” theology concentrates on the action of the faith community, of the people who receive the body and blood of Jesus, and what I do in my community after I receive the Lord in Communion.

        In a “Jesus and we” theology, we can never receive the Real Presence of Jesus and at the same time hate anyone else or refuse to forgive another or ruin another’s reputation or deliberately be divisive in the church or community or family. The fact is, however, that many times people receive the body of Christ in Communion and do not let it affect the body of Christ next to them in the pew or in the neighborhood.

        The little girl in the story did not know what the Eucharist was all about, but she knew that Jesus was a person and a friend. If Jesus becomes a person and a friend to us, we will not just “keep him” in the tabernacle of our Churches. We will make him active in our lives.

        And maybe even ask him to come out and play with us.

[The Eucharist is central for the Franciscan. Do I go to Mass as often as I can?]

2 — But Jesus cried out again in a loud voice, and gave up his spirit. (Mt 27:50)

…The Lord has redeemed me; do I act like it?

3 – “Mary took a liter of costly perfumed oil…and anointed the feet of Jesus and dried them with her hair.” (Jn 12:3)

…A sincere act of love.  Do I show the love I have on behalf of others?

4 — Jesus answered, “Will you lay down your life for me? Amen, amen, I say to you, the cock will not crow before you deny me three times.” (Jn 13:38)

…We should study the denial of Peter carefully. In what areas of my life has there been a denial of Jesus, and have I completely corrected them?

5 — “Amen, I say to you, one of you will betray me.”
Deeply distressed at this, they began to say to him one after another, “Surely it is not I, Lord?”
(Jn 26:21-22)

…The reason why Judas betrayed Jesus was personal gain or selfishness.  It is only fitting that Lent ends with this thought of selfishness.  Am I?

JPIC – It’s Never Too Late to Love

(This article originally appeared in the TAU-USA Winter 2023 Issue #108)

It’s never too late to love

by Joseph Makley, OFS
Jan Parker, OFS, former National Minister; Louise Sandberg, OFS, 2022 JPIC Award Recipient; Joseph Makley, OFS, Co-Chair, JPIC Commission.

What follows is a brief interview with Louise Sandberg, our JPIC award recipient for 2022.

Louise is currently a counselor and the JPIC animator for Tau Cross Region (The Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens, Nassau, and Suffolk counties.) Her fraternity is Blessed Raymond Lull, in Hewlett, NY.

What inspired you to become a secular Franciscan?

St Francis has inspired me since I was a little girl and read a biography of his life. My friend, Deacon Bob Campbell invited me to come to Franciscans Living in Community (FLIC), originally Secular Experience of Living Franciscanism (SELF). I was the only non- professed person there!! I had never even been to a fraternity gathering. Bill McVernon seemed to be in charge. He came up to me and reprimanded me for not having a Tau Cross! When he heard my story, he gave me one and told me not to tell anyone! He is long gone to heaven. But I found my home with like-minded, loving people. Carolyn Townes was one of them. I attended all her talks and felt her to be a beautiful kindred spirit. I was already a missionary to Ghana, West Africa. With a spiritual director, I had looked into: becoming a religious, getting married, or staying single, because I wanted to follow God’s call, not my will. God seemed to be calling me to a Secular life.

So I started going with Bob to his fraternity gatherings and was professed May 7, 2004.

What keeps you going?

I read the mass readings every day. I keep reading until I am inspired. Then I live that scripture the best I can, with God’s help. I often join my friends on Zoom for prayer, meditation, the Liturgy of the Hours, and fellowship.

I love people. I maintain my connection with my friends in Ghana, Uganda, Mexico, and locally, those I serve, who are women and children in need. I run support groups in English and Spanish, including a group for healing from childhood abuse. I am inspired by the resilience and love of those who are materially poor but rich in love, joy, peace, compassion, generosity, and gratitude. Every day is an adventure and an opportunity to listen with love, serve with humility, and surrender my will and ego living the Gospel.

Can you describe your work as a pediatric nurse?

I am a pediatric Home Care nurse for very vulnerable, fragile children. What they are unable to do, I do for them. I believe in empowering my patients, loving them, and letting them teach me how they want to be cared for. My last few patients I watched grow from young children to mature adolescents and young adults. I even went to college with one!

I do their physical care―washing them, dressing them, helping them move and breathe. They show me how valuable life is by loving their lives, never complaining about their disability, and overcoming every obstacle with their determination and God-given talents, with a little encouragement and support. I cannot say pick up your mat and walk, but I can position their hand on their joystick so they can drive their own motorized wheelchair.

How did you decide to become a JPIC animator?

I feel like Justice, Peace and Integrity of Creation chose me!! I always respond to the cry of the poor with prayer and action. In 1990, when the Jesuits and their housekeeper were killed in El Salvador, I protested at the office of my congressman against the millions of dollars we were sending in military aid to El Salvador. It was being used to kill the people. In my prayer, I saw my tax money was killing innocent people, and I was in a place to safely protest, risking only arrest, while they risked death, mutilation, and disappearance daily. I was arrested and tried with nine other Catholics from Pax Christi. Ray McGrath, our congressman, voted against that aid for the first time during our trial.

When a Ugandan told me about people dying from dirty water, I looked at my access to clean water every day, all day. I decided to help. I raised the money for a protected spring for a small village. I thought this would be my one big contribution. When I went there on mission with Secular Franciscan Stephen Smith, OFS, after meeting him at the 2016 Quinquennial, I was greeted with drumming and dancing, gifts and a presentation. Then as I was ready to leave, I was introduced to another desperate community with dirty water! So with the 2022 JPIC award, look what we did!! (See before and after photos.)

Old unsafe water source - New protected spring in Uganda village

Old unsafe water source in Uganda village & New protected spring providing clean water

JPIC – It’s Never Too Late to Love

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Formation Friday March 31, 2023, Conversion and Discernment

As Lent draws to a close, we focus on St. Francis’s conversion and how it can have a deep effect on our conversion.

If you have read a good biography of St. Francis, it is easy to see the different steps of a conversion process as they apply to different events in the life of Francis. During the time of discernment in the period of initial formation, or as professed members seek to strengthen their vocation, it is important to ponder the events of Francis’ conversion and vocation process and see how these might relate to your own conversion and vocation process.

As a help, you might use the following steps in a conversion process as they apply to the life of St. Francis, and then ask yourself how they might also apply in your own life:

· Darkness that can lead to openness (Questions and ambiguity can propel us

to God) [Think about Francis’ desire to be a knight; his restlessness; his time in prison; his illnesses and dreams]

· Listening and hearing (Prayer) [Think about Francis’ encounter with the leper and how he began to think about the poor Christ; after traveling to Rome, he returns home and prays and waits for an answer] –the voice in the dream; the voice from the San Damiano Cross; the time in solitude listening to the Lord

· Choosing to follow [Think about: Francis realizes that his true bride is Lady Poverty; Hears the voice from the San Damiano cross and responds immediately; Hears the voice in his dream-“Who do you want to follow, the servant or the master?” St. Clare and Bro. Sylvester counsel Francis to preach instead of becoming a hermit]

· Signs which strengthen our decisions and our walk [Kissing the leper; trading clothes with the beggar in Rome; He hears the voice from the San Damiano crucifix]

· Finding new direction [All of the above begin to move him in a new direction. He begins the “rebuilding” process.]

· Life of Christ/Gospel as a point of contact and reference

· Finding support in this newness

· Walking in faith [“The Lord gave me brothers…]

· Trusting even in darkness

· Darkness that can lead to openness

· As conversion is ongoing, we “begin again”, returning to the top

From For Up to Now: Franciscan Movement Part 1 “The Journey of Francis” by Jan Parker, OFS

As you think about each of the above points, comment in your journal or share with your formation group.

Looking for a biography of St. Francis? Here are a few suggestions:

–St. Francis of Assisi: Passion, Poverty, and the Man who Transformed the Catholic Church. by Bret Thoman OFS

St. Francis of Assisi: A Biography by Omer Englebert
Francis: The Journey and the Dream by Murray Bodo O.F.M. and John Michael Talbot
–Francis of Assisi: The Life and Afterlife of a Medieval Saint by André Vauchez

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Comparta con su fraternidad local. Conversión y discernimiento

 

A medida que la Cuaresma llega a su fin, nos enfocamos en la conversión de San Francisco y cómo puede tener un efecto profundo en nuestra propia conversión.

 

Si ha leído una buena biografía de San Francisco, es fácil ver los diferentes pasos de un proceso de conversión que se aplican a diferentes eventos en la vida de Francisco. Durante el tiempo de discernimiento en el período de formación inicial, o cuando los miembros profesos buscan fortalecer su vocación, es importante reflexionar sobre los eventos del proceso de conversión y vocación de Francisco, y ver cómo estos pueden relacionarse con su propio proceso de conversión y vocación.

 

Como ayuda, puede utilizar los siguientes pasos en un proceso de conversión según se apliquen a la vida de San Francisco, y luego preguntarse cómo podrían aplicarse también en su propia vida:

 

• Oscuridad que puede conducir a la apertura (las preguntas y la ambigüedad pueden impulsarnos

a Dios) [Piense en: el deseo de Francisco de ser caballero; su inquietud; su tiempo en prisión; sus enfermedades y sueños]

• Escuchar y oír (oración) [Piense en: el encuentro de Francisco con el leproso y cómo empezó a pensar en el Cristo pobre; después de viajar a Roma, regresa a casa y reza y espera una respuesta] –la voz en el sueño; la voz de la Cruz de San Damián; el tiempo en soledad escuchando al señor

• Elegir seguir [Piense en: Francisco se da cuenta de que su verdadera esposa es Lady Poverty; Oye la voz desde la cruz de San Damiano y responde de inmediato; Oye la voz en su sueño: “¿A quién quieres seguir, al sirviente o al amo?” St. Clare y Bro. Sylvester aconseja a Francisco que predique en lugar de convertirse en ermitaño]

• Señales que fortalecen nuestras decisiones y nuestro caminar [Besar al leproso; intercambiar ropa con el mendigo en Roma; Oye la voz del crucifijo de San Damián]

• Encontrar una nueva dirección [Todo lo anterior comienza a moverlo en una nueva dirección. Comienza el proceso de “reconstrucción”.]

• Vida de Cristo / Evangelio como punto de contacto y referencia

• Encontrar apoyo en esta novedad

• Caminando en fe [“El Señor me dio hermanos…]

• Confiar incluso en la oscuridad

• Oscuridad que puede conducir a la apertura.

• A medida que la conversión está en curso, “comenzamos de nuevo”, volviendo a la parte superior

 

Desde el hasta ahora: Movimiento franciscano Parte 1 “El viaje de Francisco” por Jan Parker, OFS

 

Mientras piensa en cada uno de los puntos anteriores, comente en su diario o comparta con su grupo de formación.

 

¿Busca una biografía de San Francisco? Aqui hay algunas sugerencias:

 

Biografia de San Francisco de Asis: Francisci Assisensis vita et miracula (Spanish Edition) by Tomás de Celano
San Francisco de Asís (Spanish Edition) by G. K. Chesterton

 

 

Diane F. Menditto, OFS
Vice Minister, National Fraternity, Secular Franciscan Order USA
Listen – Discern – Go Forth National Theme 2022-2025

 

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SHAPING THE FRANCISCAN FOOTPRINT – March 23 – March 29 2023

Shaping the Franciscan Footprint

Five Important Spiritual Thoughts from the Liturgy of the Word

…and follow up for the Secular Franciscan

March 23 – March 29

  1 — Jesus said: “How can you believe, when you accept praise from one another and do not seek the praise that comes from the only God?(Jn 5:44)

…Do I seek too much the praise from others?

2 – “Mary said, ‘Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.’” (Lk 1:38)

…Like Mary, I have said “yes” to the Franciscan life. Am I living it out in my life?

MARY’S PRIME DIRECTIVE

        The liturgy often refers to the Blessed Virgin. 

        Quite naturally, we are drawn into what in the study of theology is called “Mariology” or the “Theology of Mary” which is based on the fact that Mary is the earthly Mother of the Incarnate Word of God while he was here on earth with us in person.

        What should it mean for us?  A mother will be someone who both helps a child and acts as a perfect example for the child.  Therefore, there are two things for us to consider here.  They might be considered to be, in Star Trek language, the “prime directive” of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

        First, Mary helps us.  The Church has believed from early on that Mary will intercede for us, much the same way that Mary interceded for the wedding couple at Cana in John’s Gospel.  In the story she was asking her Son to help a couple, asking her Son to relieve their distress, and then offering one of the ten most important lines in Scripture, I believe: saying to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you”.  The way that Mary helps us primarily is to say to us to follow the directives that Jesus gives us.  We do not know how this works in reality, but our faith tells us that the good that we ask of God through Jesus will have Mary’s endorsement.

        Secondly, Mary serves as a perfect example for us as we live our Christian lives on earth.  She recognizes what God wants of her, and in her famous words at the Annunciation, understands that she is called by God —“Let it be done according to God’s word,” – saying “yes, I will do it”.  And she followed through with her “yes.”  Once she had said that she would follow what God wanted of her, she tried to do it.  Without knowing what it meant, she was present for her Son in everything, a lesson for all of us when we say “yes” to our Franciscan faith and the words of Jesus, no matter what happens.

3 — “I am the resurrection and the life; whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will live and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die.” (Jn 11:25)

…Is my faith (belief AND action) as strong as it should be?

It is a good spiritual exercise to write your own eulogy—what you think your friends will say about you at your funeral, and what you would like them to say about you.
Things like:
        – on a scale of 1-10 where 10 is high, how do you score your prayer life;
        – on that same scale, do you think about other people in a good way;
        – or how would you score your taking care of those less fortunate than you are?
        – and so forth…

4 — “Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” (Jn 8:7)

…I too readily judge others. This directive from Jesus concerning the woman should “speak” to me.

5 — He said to them, “You belong to what is below, I belong to what is above.” (Jn 8:23)

…I should spend more time with the Lord, more time with what is above.

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