Don’t jump to Christmas too early


Jane DeRose-Bamman National Minister

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

New Year’s blessings to you. The beginning of the liturgical year also means the start of the Advent Season. Notice I wrote Advent Season, not Christmas Season. Although the Church says the Christmas Season doesn’t start for 3+ weeks, the rest of society doesn’t buy it. Most of our friends, neighbors and businesses have jumped to Christmas already. By the time the Feast of the Nativity arrives, and the actual Christmas Season begins, many have moved on – ready to take down the decorations.

As Catholic Christians and especially Franciscans, I encourage you to resist the societal push to jump ahead. This year we have 24 days of Advent… savor the time. The season is about preparing our hearts – getting us ready for the celebration of Our Lord’s birth – as St. Francis called it, the “Feast of Feasts.” (Francis of Assisi: Early Documents. The Founder Chapter CLI, p 374)

It does not take much for me to get distracted from the reality that God is with us daily – especially when the noise of the commercial Christmas starts earlier and gets louder each year. The commercial Christmas can bring a type of joy – but I find that it does not last. Advent is an opportunity or invitation to reflect, dive deeper, into the meaning of the Incarnation – to sustain lasting joy. So, I do my best to resist jumping into the commercial Christmas season the day after Thanksgiving by focusing on the Advent Season.  Image shows St. Francis in Nativity scene surrounded by Advent Candles.

We are in control of how we react to the noise of this time.

What special features will you build into your Advent experience?

Will your fraternity focus on Advent in December?

When do you decorate your home? Brian and I put up the lights on the outside. Currently the main decoration on the inside is an Advent wreath. Do you have one in your home? We light the candle(s) during prayer time each day. This Advent, we’re planning to reflect on the National Formation Commission’s “Formation Friday” messages what will include reflections on the Prayer before the Crucifix* and the daily Advent suggestions in the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) Advent Calendar https://www.usccb.org/resources/Advent-Calendar-2024%20updated.pdf

In addition to the prayer and reflection time, I will try to be active with the message during this season – through sharing details (e.g. Jesus is the reason for the Season). I recently learned that an acquaintance is Buddhist. She mentioned to me that she decorated her home for Christmas. It gave me an opportunity to learn more about her situation as a minority trying to fit in.

There are many ways for us to participate in the Advent Season. Thank you for considering my request to spend time in Advent and not to jump immediately to Christmas. As you are transformed, may the light of Christ shine through you to family, co-workers, friends, neighbors and everyone you encounter. May our Advent help us to “testify to the whole world of God’s great power working everywhere.”**

Peace and all good,
Jane


*If you’d like to receive the emails, contact your Formation Director or the Regional Formation Director to be added to the email list. These are boosters for our vocation all year round. Formation Fridays are also posted to: https://jdpofs.org/resources/formation-fri/

**Liturgy of the Hours, Week 2, Thursday Morning Prayer, Psalm Prayer for Antiphon 1

https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/2024/11/30/dont-jump-to-christmas-too-early/

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Formation Friday –Advent—Waiting and Conversion (Part 1)- November 29, 2024

(en español abajo) Korean translation attached in a separate PDF.
Please share with your local fraternity (All three parts, this week and the next two weeks, together will work well for fraternity ongoing formation at any time of year.)

Advent—Waiting and Conversion (Part 1)

During Advent we wait for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. We know that he walked on this earth. We know that he is always with us in the Eucharist. But now, we wait for Him to come again.

For three weeks we will focus on the prayer that St. Francis prayed as he knelt before the Crucifix of San Damiano. Each part of it has significance during this time of waiting and conversion.

Most High,
glorious God,
enlighten the darkness of my heart
and give me
true faith,
certain hope,
and perfect charity,
sense and knowledge,
Lord,
that I may carry out
Your holy and true command.

https://franciscantradition.org/francis-of-assisi-early-documents/the-saint/writings-of-francis/the-prayer-before-the-crucifix/58-fa-ed-1-page-40

Part one: Daily Conversion

Most High, glorious God, enlighten the darkness of my heart”

CONSIDER:
+Our Rule: Article 7— United by their vocation as “brothers and sisters of penance”11, and motivated by the dynamic power of the gospel, let them conform their thoughts and deeds to those of Christ by means of that radical interior change which the gospel itself calls “conversion.” Human frailty makes it necessary that this conversion be carried out daily12.
On this road to renewal the sacrament of reconciliation is the privileged sign of the Father’s mercy and the source of grace13.”

+Admonition 22: Correction
1Blessed is the servant who endures discipline, accusation, and reprimand from another as patiently as he would from himself.
2Blessed is the servant who, after being reprimanded, agrees courteously, submits respectfully, admits humbly, and makes amends willingly.
3Blessed is the servant who is not quick to excuse himself, and endures with humility, shame, and reprimand for a sin, when he did not commit the fault.

https://franciscantradition.org/francis-of-assisi-early-documents/the-saint/writings-of-francis/the-undated-writings/the-admonitions/151-fa-ed-1-page-135

+During Advent, we examine our lives to prepare for the coming of Jesus. Now is a good time to see if we are living up to the call for daily conversion in our lives.

Questions for discussion or to answer in your journal
+ How do you live up to our call to daily conversion? During Advent, what spiritual improvements would you like to make in your life—even if they are little ones?
+ What were some of the key points of Francis’s conversion? How did he follow through? What can those moments teach us?

Thank you to Anne Mulqueen, OFS, for her inspiration.

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Formación 29 de noviembre, 2024
Adviento: espera y conversión

Durante el Adviento esperamos la venida de nuestro Señor Jesucristo. Sabemos que caminó sobre esta tierra. Sabemos que él está siempre con nosotros en la Eucaristía. Pero ahora, esperamos que Él regrese.

Durante tres semanas nos enfocaremos en la oración que rezó San Francisco mientras se arrodillaba ante el Crucifijo de San Damián. Cada parte tiene un significado durante este tiempo de espera y conversión.

Sumo, glorioso Dios,
ilumina las tinieblas de mi corazón
y dame fe recta,
esperanza cierta
y caridad perfecta,
sentido y conocimiento, Señor,
para que cumpla tu santo y verdadero mandamiento.

http://franciscanos.org/esfa/orsd.html

Primera Parte: La conversión diaria

“Sumo, glorioso Dios, ilumina las tinieblas de mi corazón…”

CONSIDERE:

+Nuestra Regla: Artículo 7—Como “hermanos y hermanas de penitencia”11, en virtud de su vocación, impulsados por la dinámica del Evangelio, conformen su modo de pensar y de obrar al de Cristo, mediante un radical cambio interior, que el mismo Evangelio denomina con el nombre de “conversión”; la cual, debido a la fragilidad humana, debe actualizarse cada día.
En este camino de renovación, el Sacramento de la Reconciliación es signo privilegiado de la misericordia del Padre y fuente de gracia.

+Admoniciones [Cap. XXII: De la corrección]

1Bienaventurado el siervo que soporta tan pacientemente la advertencia, acusación y reprensión que procede de otro, como si procediera de sí mismo. 2Bienaventurado el siervo que, reprendido, benignamente asiente, con vergüenza se somete, humildemente confiesa y gozosamente satisface. 3Bienaventurado el siervo que no es ligero para excusarse, sino que humildemente soporta la vergüenza y la reprensión de un pecado, cuando no incurrió en culpa.

http://franciscanos.org/esfa/adm-ae.html

+ Durante el Adviento, examinamos nuestras vidas para prepararnos para la venida de Jesús. Ahora es un buen momento para ver si estamos a la altura del llamado a la conversión diaria en nuestras vidas.

Preguntas para platicar o para responder en su diario

+ ¿Cómo está a la altura de nuestro llamado a la conversión diaria? Durante el Adviento, ¿qué mejoras espirituales le gustaría hacer en su vida, incluso si son pequeñas?

+ ¿Cuáles fueron algunos de los puntos clave de la conversión de Francisco? ¿Cómo cumplió? ¿Qué nos pueden enseñar esos momentos?

Gracias a Anne Mulqueen, OFS, por su inspiración.

 
 
Diane F. Menditto, OFS
Vice Minister, National Fraternity, Secular Franciscan Order USA
Listen – Discern – Go Forth National Theme 2022-2025

The Gospel Through a Franciscan Lens – The Feast of Christ the King – Fr. Christopher

If our faith means anything, it means that whatever forces control us, whatever problems attack us, whatever truth we have to face, Christ’s power is greater.  When we turn to Christ as our King, we find courage to face the truth, and then take the next best step on to a full life.

Father’s Homily – video

Father’s Homily – text

The Gospel Through a Franciscan Lens – The Feast of Christ the King – Fr. Christopher

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Formation Friday – Frequently Asked Questions #13 – November 22, 2024

Please share with your local fraternity (en español abajo) Korean translation attached in separate PDF.

Frequently Asked Questions answered by our General Constitutions (GC): This week, and for several more, we continue to spotlight the questions given in the 2010 edition of the Handbook for Servant Leadership. Becoming familiar with the Constitutions is very helpful in addressing these questions and others that arise in fraternities at all levels. For the complete, latest translation of the entire document, visit: https://ciofs.info/library/official-documents/ or https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/the-general-constitutions-of-the-secular-franciscan-order-2000/

What is the spiritual and pastoral relationship between the First Order, TOR, and the OFS?

 

+Vital Reciprocity and role of the Spiritual Assistant [Articles 89-90] (For further and more complete information, please also see articles 85-88; the National Statutes, International Statutes, and the Handbook for Spiritual Assistance)

 

Articles 89-90 Role of the Spiritual Assistant

 

Article 89

1. By virtue of the vital reciprocity between the religious and the secular members of the Franciscan Family and the responsibilities of Major Superiors, spiritual assistance to the Fraternities of the OFS at all levels must be assured as a fundamental element of communion.

2. The Spiritual Assistant is the person designated by the competent Major Superior to carry out this service for a specific Fraternity of the OFS.

3. To be a witness of Franciscan spirituality and of the fraternal affection of the religious towards the Secular Franciscans, and to be a bond of communion between his Order and the OFS, the Spiritual Assistant should be a Franciscan religious, member of the First Order or the TOR.

4. When it is not possible to give such a Spiritual Assistant to the Fraternity, the competent Major Superior can entrust the service of spiritual assistance to: a) religious brothers or sisters of other Franciscan institutes;

b) diocesan clerics or other persons, specially prepared for such service who are members of the OFS;

c) other diocesan clerics or religious who are not Franciscan.

 

5. Prior authorization of the Superior or the local Ordinary, when needed, does not exempt the Franciscan Major Superior of the responsibility for the quality of pastoral service and of spiritual assistance given.

 

Article 90

1. The principal task of the Assistant is to communicate Franciscan spirituality and to co-operate in the initial and continuing formation of the brothers and sisters.

2. The Spiritual Assistant is by right, a voting member of the Council of the Fraternity to which he or she gives assistance and collaborates with it in all activities. However, the Spiritual Assistant does not exercise the right to vote in financial questions*. (also See 90.3) [*or in elections see Statutes for Spiritual and Pastoral Assistance]

 

After reading Articles 89 and 90, please discuss the following with a partner or in your fraternity

 

+Does your local fraternity have a Spiritual Assistant? Is he/she a member of a religious order, diocesan clergy, or OFS?

+What role does the Spiritual Assistant play in your fraternity?

+How does your fraternity’s Spiritual Assistant fulfill Article 90.1 above? How does this help you in your vocation as a Secular Franciscan?

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Formación 22 de noviembre, 2024 Preguntas frecuentes #13 (Por favor compartir con su fraternidad local.)

 

Preguntas Frecuentes Respondidas por nuestras Constituciones Generales (CG): Esta semana, y por varias más, volvemos a las preguntas dadas en la edición 2010 del Manual para el Liderazgo de Servicio. Las mismas preguntas surgen a menudo en nuestros consejos y en nuestras fraternidades. Familiarizarse con las Constituciones es muy útil para abordar los problemas que surgen en las fraternidades a todos los niveles. Para obtener la traducción completa y más reciente del documento completo, visite: https://ciofs.info/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/ES-Constituciones-generales-OFS-s.pdf

 

¿Cuál es la relación espiritual y pastoral entre la Primera Orden, la TOR y la OFS?

 

+Reciprocidad vital y papel del Asistente Espiritual [Artículos 89-90] (Para una información más completa y más completa, ver también los artículos 85-88; los Estatutos Nacionales, los Estatutos Internacionales y el Manual de Asistencia Espiritual)

 

Artículos 89-90 Papel del Asistente Espiritual

 

Artículo 89

1. En virtud de la reciprocidad vital entre los religiosos y los seglares de la Familia Franciscana y de las responsabilidades de los Superiores mayores, debe garantizarse a las Fraternidades de la OFS, en todos sus niveles, la asistencia espiritual como un elemento fundamental de comunión.

2. El Asistente espiritual es la persona designada por el Superior mayor competente para prestar este servicio a una Fraternidad concreta de la OFS.

3. Para ser testigo de la espiritualidad franciscana y del afecto fraterno de los religiosos hacia los franciscanos seglares y vínculo de comunión entre su Orden y la OFS, el Asistente espiritual sea un religioso franciscano, perteneciente a la Primera Orden o a la TOR.

4. Cuando no es posible asignar a la Fraternidad tal Asistente espiritual, el Superior mayor competente puede confiar el servicio de la Asistencia espiritual a:

a) religiosos o religiosas pertenecientes a otros Institutos franciscanos;

b) clérigos diocesanos u otras personas, específicamente preparadas para este servicio, pertenecientes a la OFS;

c) otros clérigos diocesanos, o religiosos no franciscanos.

5. La autorización previa del Superior o del Ordinario del lugar, necesaria en estos casos, no exime al Superior mayor franciscano de su responsabilidad respecto a la calidad del servicio pastoral y de la asistencia espiritual.

 

Artículo 90

1. Es cometido principal del Asistente comunicar la espiritualidad franciscana y cooperar en la formación inicial y permanente de los hermanos.

2. El Asistente espiritual es miembro de derecho, con voto, del Consejo de la Fraternidad al que presta su asistencia y colabora con él en todas sus actividades. No ejerce el derecho de voto en las cuestiones económicas*
(Véase también 90.3) [*o en las elecciones ver Estatutos para la Asistencia Espiritual y Pastoral]

 

Después de leer los artículos 89 y 90, por favor discuta lo siguiente con un compañero o en su fraternidad.

 

+¿Su fraternidad local tiene un Asistente Espiritual? ¿Es miembro de una orden religiosa, del clero diocesano o de la OFS?

+¿Qué papel desempeña el Asistente Espiritual en su fraternidad?

+¿Cómo cumple el Asistente Espiritual de su fraternidad el Artículo 90.1 anterior? ¿Cómo le ayuda esto en su vocación de franciscano seglar?

 
 
Diane F. Menditto, OFS
Vice Minister, National Fraternity, Secular Franciscan Order USA
Listen – Discern – Go Forth National Theme 2022-2025
 
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