(This article originally appeared in the TAU-USA Summer 2025  Issue #116)

by Kathleen Molaro, OFS

National FY/YA Commission Chair

As Catholics, we believe that one way God loves us is through other people. Jesus commands us to love one another. “This is how everyone will know that you are my disciples: If you love one another.” (John 13:34)

In her autobiography, The Long Loneliness, Dorothy Day emphasized this truth: “We cannot love God unless we love each other, and to love we must know each other.” The YouFra commission has long advised that the first step in bringing the gospel to young people is to build relationships with them. But the question arises, “How can we do that?” Although there are many ways, there are three necessary attributes to develop.

Practice Virtues

What virtues will help us build relationships? St. Paul tells us, “Put on … heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another.” (Colossians 3:12) When interacting with young people, these virtues give them a glimpse of the depth of God’s love. The way you connect and respond to a younger person is essential.

Be Authentic

Young people are tired of fake news, fake online profiles, AI rather than humans, and people whose actions do not match their words. An article in the online publication, The Conversation, states “this generation has grown up in a digital age where social media and online personas are part of everyday life – as are misinformation, disinformation,” and I would add, outright dishonesty. (https://theconversation.com/topics/relationships)

As a result, young people have had to develop an acute ability to discern what is genuine from what is artificial.

Dorothy Day also wrote in her autobiography: In a good relationship, two people strive to be their most authentic selves. It is in relationships that we find out who we really are, if we embrace the vulnerability of exposing more and more of ourselves to another person.

Young people need to know we’re not perfect and are searching for answers and striving for purpose just as they are. That truthfulness allows them to connect with you in trust, openness, and confidence.

Courageously Encounter

The word “encounter” is a buzz word lately, and rightly so. Don’t we all crave community? The presence of others? A real and honest connection between ourselves and the world? We can’t build relationships from a distance. Pope Francis urged us to be like Christ and become a culture of encounter. He explained, “when we go into the street, every man thinks of himself: he sees, but does not look; he hears, but does not listen.” In short, everyone goes their own way. And consequently, “people pass each other, but they do not encounter each other.” (Pope Francis: Morning Meditation, For a Culture of Encounter, Sept. 13, 2016)

Don’t just pass by a young person. Be creative and courageous. Just as Francis learned when he tried to avoid lepers, we need to see them, hear them, engage with them, and love them as Jesus would.

Kathleen joined the St. Francis YouFra in Phoenix for an evening outreach they’d planned for new students. She asked individuals, “Why did you decide to come tonight?” The conversation revealed their thirst for community and faith sharing opportunities, and helped deepen their relationships with the YouFra leaders.

Carolyn Townes, OFS

The Secular Franciscan Order USA presented the Justice, Peace, and Integrity of Creation (JPIC) Award to Carolyn Townes, OFS, at its annual Chapter gathering held at the Bon Secours Retreat Center September 9-13.

Her acceptance speech, delivered on September 11, inspired the audience of 70 regional ministers, National Executive Council members, commission and committee chairs, and observers.  She spoke of the world’s pain and suffering, and the need to listen to one another’s stories and take heart in the proximity of God’s love.

“We try so hard to steer clear of anything that smacks of pain and suffering, although we are a nation in pain with tremendous suffering. We are brokenhearted. But the Psalmist tells us that God is close to the broken-hearted,” Carolyn said.

The JPIC Award is given to members who embody Franciscan values through their actions and initiatives. Recipients actively promote fairness to others, advance the care of creation, work for reconciliation, and advocate for the human dignity of the marginalized. First established in 1950 as the Peace Award by the North American Federation of the Third Order of St. Francis, the honor continues today under the National Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order (NAFRA).

Carolyn has dedicated decades of service to the Order at the local, regional, national, and international levels. For more than ten years, she served as the national OFS JPIC Animator.  She is also a member of the OFS Ecumenical and Interfaith Committee, where she educates on mindful communications and racial justice, with a focus on unconscious bias, empathic listening, and conflict management.

Carolyn extends her leadership throughout the broader Franciscan community. She has served on the board of the Franciscan Action Network and currently sits on the boards of Franciscans International, Pax Christi International Fund for Peace, and the Franciscan Federation. She collaborates closely with the Franciscan Action Network, the Catholic Mobilizing Network, and serves on the Joint Committee on Franciscan Unity.

(This article originally appeared in the TAU-USA Summer 2025  Issue #116)

by Mary Frances Charsky, OFS

International Councilor

Our relationship with the International Fraternity, CIOFS, begins with all of us being brothers and sisters of Secular Franciscans around the world. I recall former National Minster, Tom Bello, OFS, telling us that we are members of four fraternities: the local, Regional, National and International Fraternities. We are connected to all Franciscans around the world.

The International Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order is guided and animated by the International Council of the Secular Franciscan Order (CIOFS). It is organized and functions in conformity with the OFS Rule, the General Constitutions, the Ritual and the Statutes.

The International Council is made up of seventy International Councilors elected by the National Fraternities in the world, the CIOFS Presidency (of elected officers and Councilors), representatives of Franciscan Youth (YouFra) and the four General Spiritual Assistants.

The objective of every level of the Order is to help each brother and sister attain holiness according to one’s own personal Secular Franciscan vocation. We live in fraternity, always striving for unity with one another.

It is my joy to serve as the International Councilor for OFS-USA! Being together with sisters and brothers throughout the world is both enlightening and heartwarming! It is my responsibility to participate in the General Chapters which are scheduled every three years. Communication between CIOFS and the National Fraternity is expected as well as speaking/voting at the General Chapters in the name of the National Fraternity that I represent.

Here is a new logo and brand design for CIOFS. “A circle of rays bursting out from the Tau, like the sun shining on the secular world” is the description according to their website https://www.ciofs.info. The logo can be used with or without words and you will see it on the letters that Minister General Tibor Kauser, OFS, writes to us.

We are blessed to have the current Vice-Minister General, Mary Stronach, OFS, from the United States serving on the Presidency. Mary is the first member form the USA to serve on the Presidency during a six-year term. Every six years there is a General Chapter for elections. The interim three-year Chapter meets to address the theme, priorities, budget and statutes of the International Fraternity.

We are fortunate to have Ana Maria Raffo Laos, OFS, from Peru, as the CIOFS contact for the OFS-USA. Ana Maria and Fr. Tomas Ginga Panzo Suva, OFM Cap., General Spiritual Assistant, are coming to preside and witness the OFS-USA national elections in September 2025.

Secular Franciscans worldwide are encouraged to be compelling witnesses to build God’s Kingdom through their everyday lives in a spirit of charity following the Gospel. We realize that our vocation is not just for ourselves. We are called to bring Christ into the world by following in the footsteps of St. Francis of Assisi.

Please read Vox Franciscana, the international OFS newsletter in digital form found at https://ciofs.info/news/vox-franciscana/ It is edited by Bob Stronach, OFS, from the USA. You will see photographs of national fraternities around the world during elections, visitations and YouFra gatherings. We truly are a global Franciscan family!

From left to right, CIOFS general spiritual assistant to the OFS Fr. Tomas Ginga Panzo Suva, OFM Cap.; secretary Susan Ronan, OFS; councilor Chris Leone, OFS; international councilor Mary Frances Charsky, OFS; minister Jane DeRose-Bamman, OFS; vice minister Diane Menditto, OFS; treasurer Christine Blood, OFS; council Corinne Lorenzet, OFS; and CIOFS election presider Ana Maria Raffo Laos, OFS.

A new National Executive Council was elected to a three-year term on Saturday, September 13, at the annual Chapter meeting at the Bon Secours Retreat Center in Marriottsville, MD.

Jane DeRose-Bamman, OFS, was re-elected minister for a second term.

Also re-elected were vice minister Diane Menditto, OFS; secretary Susan Ronan, OFS; and international councilor Mary Frances Charsky, OFS.

Elected to their first terms on the NEC were treasurer Steve Roszhart, OFS, and councilors Christine Blood, OFS; Chris Leone, OFS; and Corrine Lorenzet, OFS.

Diane Menditto was elected alternate international councilor.

The election concluded a four-day meeting of regional ministers, NEC members, Conference of National Spiritual Assistants (CNSA), and observers.

The NEC members were installed at a Mass following the election by Fr. Tomas Ginga Panzo Suva, OFM Cap, CIOFS general spiritual assistant to the OFS.  Election presider was Ana Maria Raffo Laos, OFS, of Peru.