Formation: The Heart of Secular Franciscan Life

 (This article originally appeared in the TAU-USA Summer 2025  Issue #116)

by Layna Maher, OFS

National Formation Commission Chair

Initial formation is the first step in a lifelong journey of learning, growing and discerning our vocations. It allows us to experience life in fraternity along with the privileges and responsibilities of the brothers and sisters. Initial formation gives the individuals and the fraternity tools to discern if they have a Franciscan vocation and if this is the path they will take and promise to live for the rest of their life.

Ongoing formation provides continuous opportunities for conversion and transformation as we strive to live our Rule. Good formation changes us and challenges us to question how we’re doing on that journey. It gives us opportunities to reflect on our lives, the choices we make, the interactions that we have, and if we truly are living life to gospel and gospel to life. Formation supports us to continue growing in our vocation as we study the lives of St. Francis and St. Clare, the OFS Rule, and the gospels.

The lives and writings of St. Francis and St. Clare inspire and ground us. Their radical love, humility, and faithfulness light our path, reminding us that formation is not simply intellectual study but a call to interior conversion and outward witness.

Our OFS Rule gives us clear guidance on how we are to live our lives, calling us to simplicity, peace, justice, and care for creation. Living our Rule shapes how we relate to God, others, and the world. According to Article 4 of the OFS Rule, “Secular Franciscan should devote themselves to careful reading of the gospel, going from gospel to life and life to the gospel.” Reading and reflecting on the gospels will help us to walk in the footsteps of Francis as he followed in the footsteps of Jesus. As we become more and more familiar with the gospels, the Word of God becomes more and more alive in us, guiding our choices and actions.

Article 15 of the OFS Rule calls Franciscans to “… individually and collectively be in the forefront of promoting justice by the testimony of their human lives and their courageous initiatives. Especially in the field of public life, they should make definite choices in harmony with their faith.” It’s often in the difficult choices about what we’re willing to share of our lives, our time, and our resources.

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In the gospels, Jesus gives us clear direction on how we are to live, love and forgive. For example, we can read and reflect on “The Judgment of the Nations” in Matthew 25 and ask “‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or ill or in prison, and not minister to your needs?” Who are the marginalized in our communities? Do we see them? Do we help them? Do we love them? There are many people, including the young, old, homeless, sick, imprisoned, immigrants, and poor around us in need. We are called to be Christ to them. The actions and choices we make in our life tell the world who we are and what we value. Living the tenets of the gospel help us to shine the love and light of Christ into the world.

Formation gives us the opportunity for conversion, transformation, and to discern if we are truly living our OFS Rule and fulfilling our profession promise. Formation guides us as we figure out how we are called to be joyful, humble followers of Christ and to bring God’s love and light into the world

https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/2025/09/formation-the-heart-of-secular-franciscan-life/

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FORMATION FRIDAY- Discernment before electing or being elected to Secular Franciscan Council – September 5, 2025

 

(en español abajo) Korean translation attached in a separate PDF.
Please share with your local fraternity

Discernment before electing or being elected to a Secular Franciscan Council

National elections are coming up on September 13th. There will also be elections in many regions and in many local fraternities. If you are thinking of nominating or voting for someone, or accepting a nomination yourself, here are some things to think about.

Take into consideration the following items when thinking about your own or someone else’s service:

  • Love of the Order and willingness to serve
  • Faith in the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Prayer is an important factor in daily life.
  • Time– A willingness to make working with the fraternity a priority even if it means leaving other activities, and realizing that we ask nothing in return for our service.
  • Experience: At the local level—participation in fraternity activities; at the regional level—prior service on the council at the local level and participation in regional events; at the national level—service on the local and regional levels, especially having served on the council.
  • Organizational skills—demonstrates timeliness in completing projects as promised. Shows a willingness to prepare ahead of time.
  • Communication skills—ability and desire to keep our members up to date with what is going on at the higher level in a variety of ways including print, verbally, and on social media. On the local level desire and ability to communicate with all members.
  • Fraternal dialogue—willingness to listen to others, ask for, and act on their input and suggestions.
  • Collaborative spirit—ability to recognize and appreciate the gifts others have and allow them to use their talents to move the Order and its projects forward.
  • Ability to support others as they carry out their assigned tasks. If the council works together, the load we carry is much lighter.
  • Trust in the abilities and integrity of others in the fraternity.
  • Understanding that we can only move forward if we are well-formed as Secular Franciscans. Personal Formation and formation for councils should never end.
  • Energy and enthusiasm—councils are called to “animate and guide” the members. Having enthusiasm for living the gift of our Rule and Constitutions and encouraging others to understand how important our documents are to every aspect of our lives as Secular Franciscans is important.
  • Desire and willingness to collaborate with our spiritual assistants, friars, and other members of the Franciscan family, and with the Church in general
  • Willingness to ask for assistance from the higher level
  • Desire and ability to build on what has been accomplished by the prior Council—local, regional, or national.

For discussion in your fraternity, with a prayer partner, or to comment on in your journal.

+Think of the Franciscan servant leaders you have known. Which characteristics above apply to them?
+What kind of effect do these servant leaders have on the fraternity?
+Think about your qualities as a servant leader. How do you measure up?

Formación 5 de septiembre de 2025 (Comparta con su fraternidad local)

Discernimiento antes de elegir o ser elegido para un Consejo Franciscano Seglar

Las elecciones nacionales serán el 13 de septiembre. También habrá elecciones en muchas regiones y en muchas fraternidades locales. Si está pensando en nominar o votar por alguien, o aceptar una nominación usted mismo, aquí hay algunas cosas en las que debe pensar.

Tenga en cuenta los siguientes elementos cuando piense en su propio servicio o en el de otra persona:

  • Amor a la Orden y voluntad de servicio
  • Fe en la guía del Espíritu Santo. La oración es un factor importante en la vida diaria.
  • Tiempo: la voluntad de hacer que trabajar con la fraternidad sea una prioridad, incluso si eso significa dejar otras actividades y darse cuenta de que no pedimos nada a cambio de nuestro servicio.
  • Experiencia: A nivel local—participación en las actividades de la fraternidad; a nivel regional—servicio previo en el consejo a nivel local y participación en eventos regionales; a nivel nacional— servicio a nivel local y regional, especialmente haber servido en el concilio.
  • Habilidades organizativas: demuestra puntualidad en la finalización de los proyectos según lo prometido. Muestra disposición a prepararse con anticipación.
  • Habilidades de comunicación: capacidad y deseo de mantener a nuestros miembros actualizados con lo que sucede en el nivel superior en una variedad de formas, que incluyen impresos, verbalmente y en las redes sociales. A nivel local deseo y capacidad de comunicarse con todos los miembros.
  • Diálogo fraterno: disponibilidad para escuchar a los demás, pedir y actuar sobre sus aportes y sugerencias.
  • Espíritu de colaboración: capacidad de reconocer y apreciar los dones que tienen los demás y permitirles usar sus talentos para hacer avanzar la Orden y sus proyectos.
  • Habilidad para apoyar a otros mientras llevan a cabo sus tareas asignadas. Si el consejo trabaja en conjunto, la carga que llevamos es mucho más liviana.
  • Confiar en las capacidades y la integridad de los demás en la fraternidad.
  • Comprender que solo podemos avanzar si estamos bien formados como franciscanos seglares. La Formación personal y la formación para los consejos nunca debe terminar.
  • Energía y entusiasmo: los concilios están llamados a “animar y guiar” a los miembros. Tener entusiasmo por vivir el don de nuestra Regla y Constituciones y alentar a otros a comprender cuán importantes son nuestros documentos para cada aspecto de nuestras vidas como franciscanos seglares es importante.
  • Deseo y disposición de colaborar con nuestros asistentes espirituales, frailes y demás miembros de la familia franciscana, y con la Iglesia en general
  • Voluntad de pedir ayuda al nivel superior
  • Deseo y capacidad de construir sobre lo logrado por el Concilio anterior—local, regional o nacional.

Para discutir en su fraternidad, con un compañero de oración, o para comentar en tu diario.

+Piense en los líderes servidores franciscanos que ha conocido. ¿Qué características anteriores se aplican a ellos?
+¿Qué tipo de efecto tienen estos líderes servidores en la fraternidad?
+Piense en sus cualidades como líder servidor. ¿Cómo se mide?

 
 
 
Diane F. Menditto, OFS
Vice Minister, National Fraternity, Secular Franciscan Order USA
Listen – Discern – Go Forth National Theme 2022-2025

OFS-USA Governing Documents Cross-Reference Index

The Essential Documents of the Secular Franciscan Order (2005) is no longer in print.

The Index in this document has been recently updated and has been added to the Home page on the OFS-USA website along with the OFS-USA Governing Documents that are contained within The Essential Documents of the Secular Franciscan Order.

ON THE HOME PAGE

 https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/

OFS GOVERNING DOCUMENTS

https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/2025/09/ofs-usa-governing-documents-cross-reference-index/

A Dog Bite and Matthew 5:44

(This article originally appeared in the TAU-USA Summer 2025  Issue #116)

by Jane De-Rose Bamman, OFS

National Minister

face of a bull bog staring at youRecently, a dog bit me. At our initial encounter, he seemed friendly but as he was passing me, he turned around to bite my leg. Not a nip – a real bite! I did nothing to provoke it. But who really knows … the dog didn’t give me a reason for the action.

That experience made me ponder our relationships, especially with our enemies. Although we don’t always recognize them at first, people who can harm us do exist.

Daily we pray: “… he promised of old that he would save us from our enemies, from the hands of all who hate us.” (Lk 1:70-71). Then in Matt 5:44, Jesus said “… love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you.”

These scripture passages challenge us to consider what an enemy is and who our enemies are. According to The American Heritage Dictionary, enemy comes from the Latin word inimicus which means “bad friend.”

Do I have any human enemies? Is there anyone in my family, fraternity, community or in the world, I view as an enemy or a bad friend? No one comes to mind. But I do avoid those whose actions irritate me or who are arrogant or rude. Enemies? Sort of.

Does an enemy need to know that they are considered an enemy to truly be one? Does it have to be mutual with each person hating the other? If it is just in my mind, does it meet the definition of an enemy?

Matt 5:44 calls us to love our enemies. In one case, I considered a former coworker, now a competitor, as an enemy. I harbored ill feelings because I felt the coworker had badmouthed my husband, Brian, and me. I did not want to be around that person at all. Instead of killing the relationship, it was time for me to apply Matt 5:44 – a work in progress. People of various cultures may be viewed as enemies because of differences or their impact on the environment. Neighbors may be considered enemies because of noise levels or unkept yards, harming your sense of peace and quiet or property value. Fraternity brothers or sisters may be thought of as enemies because they ask us to do something we don’t agree with, or we don’t feel we are treated with the respect we deserve. Am I willing to love my enemies and pray for those who persecute me – including family members? I am willing to try.

I have been guilty of assuming something about a perceived enemy and come to find out the person had no intent of harm at all. I just needed to get to know the person or the full story behind the circumstances.

The wisdom of the Gospel call to love our enemies is a prompt to be in relationship with these persons. Sometimes when coexisting you can see the benefits of another. Having a relationship with an enemy may actually turn that person into a friend.

Although I choose to try to apply Matt 5:44 instead of harboring ill will towards a “bad friend,” I will still be cautious with stray dogs in the neighborhood.

https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/2025/09/a-dog-bite-and-matthew-544/

Favorite Article, Scripture or Story : Compilation by NEC Members

By National Executive Committee Members

At the last National Executive Council meeting, minister Jane De-Rose Bamman asked members to share either their favorite article of the Rule, scripture quote or story about St. Francis.  This is a compilation of their sacred thoughts.

President-in-turn Conference of National Spiritual Assistants Fr. Marek Stybor, OFM Conv.

 -“I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5

Minister Jane De-Rose Bamman

– “Go into the whole world and tell the Good News.”  Mark 16:15

Vice minister Diane Menditto

– But how happy and blessed are those who love God and do as the Lord Himself says in the Gospel: You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself. (Mt 22:37; Mt 22:39) (St. Francis of Assisi FA:ED, vol. 1, 46 Later Admonition and Exhortation) and The story of St. Francis kissing the leper with the emphasis not only on how it changed Francis, but on how the leper felt and was changed.

Secretary Susan Ronan

–“Praise the Lord for His loving kindness will never fail.” Psalm 136:1

Treasurer Claudia Kauzlarich

– “Be still and know that I am God.”  Psalm 46:10

YouFra Commission Chair Kathleen Molaro

– We are called to be “messengers of perfect joy in every circumstance,” and to “strive to bring joy and hope to others.” OFS Rule: Article 19

Councilor Cherryle Fruge

– “Mindful that they are bearers of peace which must be built up unceasingly, they shall seek out ways of unity and fraternal harmony through dialogue, trusting in the presence of the divine seed in everyone and in the transforming power of love and pardon. Messengers of perfect joy in every circumstance, they should strive to bring joy and hope to others. Since they are immersed in the resurrection of Christ, which gives true meaning to Sister Death, let them serenely tend toward the ultimate encounter with the Father.” OFS Rule: Article 19

International Councilor Mary Frances Charsky

– “The Greatest Commandment: Jesus said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Matthew 22: 37-29 from Matthew 22: 34 to 40

Formation Director Layna Maher

 -“Let them, individually and collectively, be in the forefront in promoting justice by the testimony of their human lives and their courageous initiatives.”  OFS Rule: Article 14 and “He will answer them, ‘Amen, I say to you, what you did not do for one of these least ones, you did not do for me.’” Matthew 25:45

Councilor Donna Hollis

– Parable of the Good Samaritan

JPIC Commission Chair Joe Makley

“Come now, let’s put things right.”  Isaiah 1:16-17

Councilor Josh Molidor

–”Ready and willing Spirit for the community.” OFS Rule: Article 21

https://www.secularfranciscansusa.org/2025/09/favorit-article-from-rule-compilation-by-nec-members/

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